Respect

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What is Respect?

Respect has different meanings but all play a part in how Christians value themselves and the lives of others. Respecting those that love and care for us, our parents, carers and those in the local community, is common in all traditions. We should appreciate what’s done for us, finding cooperation not conflict and take responsibility. Romans 13 states that we should ‘Pay others the honour and respect you owe them’.

Respect for others – everyone is special; everyone’s opinion matters; everyone’s contribution is important; everyone’s feelings should be considered; everyone’s faith is sacred.

Respect can mean simply treating each other with politeness and courtesy, and recognising that everyone’s contribution is important and that everyone’s feelings should be considered. At Baxenden St. John’s, we regularly discuss how respecting someone does not mean that we always agree with the other person but that we are prepared to listen and share our views without rudeness or impatience. 

Christians recognise that respect needs to start with respect for ourselves and our own unique contribution to our homes, schools or communities. Having self-respect means being able to celebrate our gifts and talents, looking after ourselves and the bodies that God has given us. Having self-respect also means nurturing our talents so that we the best we can be, honouring how God has made us and being confident about who we are.

How do we live this out in school? ‘Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.’  John 2

• Respect yourself
• Treat others the way you would like to be treated
• Respect others’ thoughts, ideas and beliefs
• Embrace difference
• Look after your belongings and your equipment
• Take care of our school
• Take care of our environment
• Gain respect by giving respect
• Forgive others and seek reconciliation

Do these activities at home: